Why I Walked Out of My Church and Into My Calling
When the Church’s silence felt louder than the abuse, I found my purpose: to make it safe again.
When the Church’s silence felt louder than the abuse, I found my purpose: to make it safe again.

For years, I believed humility meant silencing myself and calling it Christlike. But Philippians 2:3–8 doesn’t call women to disappear — it invites all believers into empowered, purposeful love. This post reframes a commonly misused passage and offers hope for women reclaiming their voice and worth in Christ. Blog Post Description

Spiritual formation is central to the Church’s mission, but unaddressed trauma is quietly blocking growth. Many disciples know Scripture—but carry wounds that distort how they relate to God, themselves, and others. This article calls churches to become trauma-informed—naming pain, equipping leaders, and integrating healing into discipleship. Because healing isn’t separate from formation—it is formation. The Church was meant to be a refuge. It’s time to make it one.

Too often, the Church mislabels abuse as mere conflict—and pressures survivors into silence under the guise of unity. This article challenges the misuse of traditional conflict resolution models in abusive situations and calls for a trauma-informed, justice-rooted approach to true reconciliation. Jesus didn’t mediate injustice—He disrupted it. It’s time the Church did the same.