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Silenced, Not Broken

June 19, 20251 min read

I left my abusive marriage at nine months pregnant. What I didn’t realize at the time was that leaving wouldn’t end the abuse — it would just change forms.

I escaped with a newborn and no money. I rebuilt from nothing. But the family court system that was supposed to protect us became the new battleground. What should’ve been a path to peace became years of litigation, accusations, and emotional warfare. The courtroom replaced the living room. The control never stopped — it just put on a tie and called itself “justice.”

I wrote Silenced, Not Broken under the pen name Leona Grey as both a testimony and a plea. It’s for every mother who tried to protect her child and was painted as unstable. For every survivor whose bruises weren’t visible. For every story that’s still unfolding in sealed courtrooms and sleepless nights.

What the system doesn’t understand is that emotional abuse doesn’t end when a relationship does. In many cases, especially when children are involved, it evolves into something more covert — and more devastating.

My book isn’t just a story — it’s a mission. I’m using it to raise awareness, invite conversation, and fund the legal fight to protect what matters most.

You can read more or download a copy at:
👉 https://silencedmemoir.com

If you’ve ever felt silenced, dismissed, or disbelieved, this story is for you.

And if you’ve ever asked, “Why doesn’t anyone talk about this?” — now someone is.

Leona Grey

Leona Grey is a writer, advocate, and Christian mother who knows what it means to fight for peace in the aftermath of emotional abuse. Writing under a pen name to protect her child, Leona speaks openly about the hidden realities of covert abuse, the failures of family court, and the quiet courage it takes to keep going. Her words offer truth, validation, and hope to women navigating motherhood, faith, and survival. She writes to the woman holding it all together in silence—to remind her that she’s not alone, and that healing is holy work.

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